"Are You a Relationship Expert"

   Being relationship expert is good because it enables you to understand  situations before they happen. You can guide others on their relationship types that are good for them .

   Two of my guys came to the office to pick me up for lunch. Then a discussion sparked around ambitions, dating and marriage.

The discussion continued across a few areas which we started talking about what are we really looking for in a lady in what people call "wife material". 

Well this discussion was tensed and sounded important as if we were discussing about a business deal because all the guys are single brothers. 

We live in a world that is obsessed with financial stability. We all want to be financially secure and we often measure our success by our bank account. But in our quest for financial security, we often forget about the other important aspects of a relationship.

When it comes to dating or marriage, we often focus on finding a partner who is financially stable. We look for someone who has a good job, a steady income, and a healthy savings account. But what about mental, emotional, and spiritual stability? These are the qualities that truly matter in a relationship.

Someone with a good job and or business with the wrong attitude, character, mindset, emotional and spiritual stability can lose a job or business and find it difficult to ever bounce back. 

However, someone with an incredible attitude, character, mindset, emotional and spiritual stability has massive chances to succeed and be sustainable because he or she has what it takes. 

Mental stability is important because it allows us to handle the stress and challenges of life in a healthy way. Emotional stability is important because it allows us to form healthy connections and communicate effectively with our partner. Attitude stability is important because it allows us to approach life with a positive attitude, and spiritual stability is important because it allows us to maintain a sense of purpose and meaning in life.

“When we focus solely on financial stability, we are missing out on the truly important things that make a relationship successful. We can have all the money in the world, but if we don't have the mental, emotional, and spiritual stability to support a healthy relationship, we will never truly be happy” Javnyuy Joybert

So, if you're looking for love, don't forget about the mental, emotional, attitude and spiritual stability. These are the traits that truly matter in a relationship, and they will make all the difference in the long run.

Let's not be obsessed with financial stability (yes it is important), however, let's have intentional focus on the qualities that truly matter in a relationship. Let's strive for mental, emotional, attitude and spiritual stability and watch as our relationships flourish.

Personally for me, I would prefer to date and marry a lady who has no job, no big degrees, however has the character and attitude of a winner, passion for her life goals, emotional intelligence to manage her emotions and that of others and total soul transformation, a growing fellowship with God. 

For example, a lady or a man with the right attitude is humble and teachable. With a little bit of diligence and patience, you can teach that woman or man anything. As they say in the corporate world, hire for attitude and not for skill. With attitude you can transfer any skill to that person.